How to Get a Guy’s Attention in 5 Easy Steps

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How to Get a Guy’s Attention in 5 Easy Steps

How to Attract a Guy’s Attention

Ladies, how many times have you been in a situation where you spot a guy that just gets your blood bubbling and you really want to get his attention but you just don’t know how? Instead of resigning yourself to chalking him up to another missed opportunity, why not try these 5 tips on how to attract a guy? You might be surprised by how easy it can be!

Step 1: Get him to notice you!

In order to get a guy to want you, you first have to make him even realize you exist! The first and arguably the best way to get a guy’s attention is to choose clothing that appeals to them. Okay, you might argue that you don’t want to be noticed for your body, but come on ladies. If you’ve got it, flaunt it! Men can’t help but notice a sexy woman who shows off her assets. You may as well use them to your advantage.

Step 2: Use those lovely eyes of yours
While you may use your body to get into his radar, it will be your eyes that will let him know you’re interested in him. Your eyes have the ability to communicate more emotion and intent then your words can ever really convey. It’s interesting that although we have eyes, there are many of us who don’t know how to use them to our advantage. You might think that all you have to do is look at him, make brief eye contact, and then coyly look away. It takes more than that! You have to be a little more obvious than that. This doesn’t mean stare him down and make him feel uncomfortable, but you do want to maintain eye contact for a few heartbeats and smile. That’ll click something in his brain that tells him, “Hey, I think she’s interested in me. Let’s go see.”

Step 3: Smile

You know how we mentioned that when you may and maintain eye contact that you should flash him a smile? That smile should be warm and friendly. Meaning, when you do smile, you’ll want to avoid grinning like the Cheshire cat and more like a confident woman going after what (or who!) she wants.

Step 4: Show him that you like having fun
If you’re hanging out at a bar, club, or party and you’re trying to figure out how to attract a guy’s attention, show him that you’re a fun loving girl and have a good attitude by actually having fun! Dance, laugh, and mingle with other people. Show him that you’re someone he can have fun with. Show him that, although you’re in your own little world, you aren’t opposed to him dancing with you.

Step 5: Don’t be afraid to touch

By touching, you’re creating a bond with the person you interact with that normally isn’t there when you’re just talking with them. Now this doesn’t just work with the guy whose attention you’re trying to get, but we mean touch everyone. For example, if you’re telling a story to someone, touch their hand when you get to the best part. If you’re listening to someone’s woes, lay a comforting hand on their shoulder while they talk.

What are some of your favorite tricks or tips on how to attract a guy? Leave a comment below and tell us!