5 Ways to Win the Heart of the Girl That You Think Is Out Of Your League

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5 Ways to Win the Heart of the Girl That You Think Is Out Of Your League

She may be the girl that every man dreams about, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t try your luck and pursue her. Find out how you can win her heart and make the other guys jealous.

1. Have Good Intentions.

Before you actually do pursue her, you have to ask yourself if you’re interested in dating her for the right reasons. What we mean by this is, are you interested in dating her just because she has a great career and is going somewhere in life? Do you want to date her because she’s drop dead gorgeous? Or is there something more? Are you drawn to her personality, her interests, her outlook of life? These are the things that really matters.

2. Be a Gentleman.

You may be under the impression that the bad boy always wins the girl. While that may be the case in most instances, the bad boy is never able to keep the girl because he always winds up doing something that will hurt her in the long run and she’ll leave him. Don’t be the bad boy. Be the guy that opens doors for his lady, who surprises her with sweet gestures, and makes her feel special, not replaceable.

3. Have a Good Sense of Humor.

If you aren’t the Greek God that other men may be, don’t worry. Their looks will fade as they grow older but you know what doesn’t? A good sense of humor. Women usually fall for the guy that can make her laugh, as long as you aren’t being malicious and making jokes to hurt someone. If you can make her laugh, then you’re almost guaranteed her heart.

4. Always Be Near By.

Now, we aren’t saying that you should become a stalker, but we are suggesting that you be nearby when it matters. Let’s say a mutual friend is throwing a party. Make sure you get invited (or they invite her if they hadn’t already). If she works with you, time your breaks when she takes hers. If you see her at the grocery store fairly regularly, try to run into her, without following her. The more she sees you, the more you’ll be on her radar.

5. Don’t Be Arrogant.

Confidence is always an attractive quality in a person. Arrogance, on the other hand, is not. There are some women who ooze confidence, almost to the point where it intimidates men. You don’t want to be that guy that she scares away. Be the guy that rises up to the challenge and match her confidence. Show her that you’re someone that is on her level and that you aren’t going to shy away from her strength. Show her that you’re equals and that if you were together, you’d be unstoppable.