You can let the guy you’ve been crushing on know you’re digging him by grinding on him, but you can do it in a way that is discreet and subtle to everyone else.
How to grind with a guy the right way?
If you want to have a good time with a guy you just meet at a club and still be respected and pursued by him, you need to learn to arouse a guy and still make it seem like it was him taking the lead and making all the moves all through the way.
What is grinding really?
You would be surprised by how many women don’t know that grinding is the art of moving your butt around a guy’s groin when you’re dancing with him. We know, it sounds pretty bold, but it’s something that comes naturally between opposite sexes when they’re turned on by each other.
Lots of women wonder about the right way to grind and look good while they are going at it. But understanding how to grind with a guy doesn’t require any formal lessons. You can do it whatever you like, and the guy will keep dancing with you, no matter what.
But what matters is how easy you’re going to play and give into a guy’s groin.
How to grind with a guy and arouse him?
If you want to know how to grind with a guy, turn him on, and still be able to look at yourself in the morning, here are 10 tips that can make all the difference between a woman that’s hard to get and one that has been gotten by many people.
1. Get a girlfriend dance with you.
Men are always attracted to women who are dancing with their girlfriends. They have this uncanny desire to get in the middle of two sexy women.
2. Dance next to the guy you’ve got your eye on.
When you know, you have a guy’s attention, signal your friend to move away, and now you can make your move to dance next to him.
3. Brush your body against his.
As you’re dancing with him, let your body touch his. This could be your brushing against his, bumping into him on “accident.”
4. Touch him with your breasts.
When all else fails, just brush your breasts against him while dancing.
5. Keep your hands at your side.
Keep your hands by your sides while you’re dancing and let them hover around his waist and butt. He’ll start moving about a lot more just to get more of your touches, but make sure he is the first one to initiate the touch!
6. Dance beside him.
You don’t want to stand in front of him and start grinding yet. Dance by his side and let your hips or hand gently graze him while your dancing with the music.
7. Let your fingers touch his.
When your fingers do touch his, don’t move them away, but you don’t want to do anything about it either. It’s going to drive him crazy, and all he’d want to do is hold it.
8. Dance in front of him.
Step in front of him and move your hips around so your butt keeps brushing against his thigh. This will let him know to come closer you. If he’s shy, a few “accidental” butt-to-groin grazes while dancing will definitely do the trick.
9. Wiggle your butt against him slightly.
When he’s behind you, back up a little bit and let your butt gyrate against him to the beat of the music.
10. Slide your hands down your body.
If the guy hasn’t placed his hands on your hips by now, drop your hands or run them down your hips now and then as you sway your hips. It’ll be even better when your hands touch his fingers a lot while dancing.