The single life is supposed to be filled with dates and flirtatious, naughty, fun. Sadly that’s not always the case as we don’t meet enough singles, or not enough singles who we are attracted to. Meeting singles online opens the door for, well, a lot more meetings!
In a bar you only find so many people, usually from a certain neighborhood. Online you find thousands of singles from all over town and nearby cities and villages. You suddenly upped your chances of meeting someone you’re attracted to by we don’t know how many percent - a lot.
It’s also a lot easier to meet singles online as you can flirt at any given time - not just at that party on a Friday night. And let’s face it: it’s a lot easier to chat to someone online than in your local store. Online you know they’re single, willing to flirt and want to be approached. Not everyone will be a match, but there won’t be any awkwardness if they aren’t - they simply won’t reply. Quite different from when you have to explain to someone’s husband/wife why you were just chatting to them whilst grabbing some milk in the convenience store…
Single people want to have fun. We all know how fun it is when our friends introduce us to that available single who is about as exciting as a night with Auntie Irma though - suddenly single life doesn’t seem all that fun anymore, does it?
Online on the other hand you have thousands of singles one click away. You can search for singles near you, singles in other cities, singles with similar interests, singles with certain characteristics and so forth. It’s like an entry into a whole new world. A world filled with single fun!
Where to meet singles apart from online you ask? Bars, pubs, clubs, social events, networking events, at the gym, through classes, through friends…the list goes on. But all these places to meet singles tend to be for other things too. And rather than feel disappointed that you didn’t meet someone, it’s nice to leave your social life be - let it be your social life. Don’t feel any stress over having to meet someone to flirt with at the next party. Parties become a lot more fun when you know that whether you meet someone or not, there are a thousand people you can connect with when you get home!
Online dating simply removes the pressure from your social life. Social people tend to have more fun and therefore be more attractive though, so keep going out. Just remove the pressure from going out and go out when you want to, as opposed to all the time just to try to meet someone.