Meeting girls online isn’t actually that hard. Mainly because you will meet more women online than any other place (save, maybe the Olympics…).
In a bar, or club, you first have to figure out if someone is single and wanting to flirt. Online everyone’s looking to flirt. All you have to do is send them a message to see if they’re interested in flirting with you in particular.
Also, online you can speak with twenty girls in a week if you fancy, whereas at a bar one night, it’s kind of hard to squeeze in fifty women to have a conversation with, and chances are you won’t go to bars every night. Online you only need five minutes to make contact with someone.
When connecting with someone online the best thing is to send them a chat request, or a regular message if they’re offline.
When messaging someone be sure to properly read their profile first - compliment them on something in it and ask a question about something they’ve mentioned. Same goes when chatting. People are a lot more open to flirting with people who are actually paying attention to them, so do.
So you’ve signed up for a dating site, now how do you best meet girls online?
First you need your profile sorted. You will want to write something fairly short about yourself, but long enough to convey who you are. Keep it lighthearted, but honest. If you aren’t good at writing in such a way it sparks curiosity in others, then have some friends help you out.
Make sure to keep things positive in your profile - it’s better to state what you are looking for and what you enjoy than what you aren’t looking for and what you don’t enjoy.
You will need some great profile pictures as well. Include photos from different situations that capture who you are. Be sure to include at least one close up and one full body shot as well (and no nude pics guys - you’re better off sticking to the beach pictures!).
Once your profile is ready, start messaging or chatting with someone! That simple. And be sure to reach out to as many girls as possible even if you aren’t entirely sure about them - some women are a lot better in real life than in their profile!
If you want to meet local girls online it’s, in fact, simple - you just put it in the search option that you want to meet girls within a radius of so and so of whatever place you’re looking in. For example, you might want to meet women within a ten or fifty mile radius of Notting Hill or Beverly Hills.
You can use other search criteria as well, like what interests someone has and what they are looking for when it comes to dating, be it flirting or something more long term.