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your partner's interests

# 21  11/18/13 6:56 PM

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jayes27900 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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For me the important common intrest,is each other. Each can have differant life styles even,if your common intrest is each other. "I do because she likes"....it is when" you have to do it my way because everything else is wrong!" your only intrest is you.(looking in a mirror.  lol)...life should be easy and fun!!!

# 22  11/19/13 3:11 AM

twost This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Do you think that it's important to have partner with common interest or not?Cos as we know usually opposites attract.So what would you chose?

In many respects it is very important to have common Values and virtues. I feel that it is perfectly normal and frankly healthy for each person to have their own interests and wants. This will speak to the strong, healthy nature of each person in the relationship. To have all of the same interests is fine, however, can lead to a short lived relationship. This is because there wont be any aspiration, passion, and yes some conflict. Those three things help keep a relationship interesting and keep each person engaged in the relationship. In Closing I agree that opposites attract.

# 23  11/19/13 5:35 AM

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dbeno This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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yes I do believe you should have something in common. if I like the outdoors and campfires and you don't ....well...!!need not say anymore...I love cuddling up to a good movie though !

# 24  11/20/13 10:35 PM

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acesmrw12152 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Its not manditory but it does help if you show some interest in what your partner does or is interested in. Better that then have them **** at you! I have my own special interests that mine has no interest in what so ever! But i supported mine in what they did. tried to encourage them more on it!

# 25  11/30/13 2:03 AM

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ONLYKISSME This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Pienso en mi forma muy personal de pensar.. qud si es importante tener intereses comunes.... pereo antes que todo que exista un amor verdadero para tolerar esos pequeños roces de desaveniencia que pudiesen existir..... pero habiendo amor real se supera todo..... absolutamente todo....... Buena suerte a todos y todas..... bendiciones......

# 26  12/7/13 2:20 PM

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desir This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Yes and no. Yes because you will argue less if  you like the same things. And no because you should try new from each other not the same old boring things  bo you  should have And find a **** of both

# 27  12/7/13 10:26 PM

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caren This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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For me it depends who I'm ****.  If it is just a **** buddy it is just a physical attraction between two people who want to ****.  If it is someone I am sending more time with and we are "Friends" then yes interest are important. Some guys are looking for a good **** in the bed and a lady outside.

# 28  12/13/13 1:54 AM

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coolcock This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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blondeambit789 wrote:

Do you think that it's important to have partner with common interest or not?Cos as we know usually opposites attract.So what would you chose?

yes some common.

# 29  12/13/13 2:43 AM

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TalentedAngel This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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blondeambit789 wrote:

Do you think that it's important to have partner with common interest or not?Cos as we know usually opposites attract.So what would you chose?

I think it's very important. My interests and my partners are very much the same but as people we are very opposite, he's the powerful positive business man where I'm more the shyer one that looks up to him and I love everything about him and he likewise with me. I feel we have the perfect balance.

# 30  12/16/13 1:33 AM

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varga6565 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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I believe it is very important.even if looks are what first attract u to some one similiar interests n beliefs are what will keep u with some one,if thats what the person is looking for....

# 31  12/16/13 1:37 AM

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A-Woman This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Chilled wrote:

blondeambit789 wrote:

Do you think that it's important to have partner with common interest or not?Cos as we know usually opposites attract.So what would you chose?

Most important is a flow, or chemistry.  Common interests aren't as important, because that can develop.  Not many people do everything they would enjoy doing all the time, so it's possible to find someone you groove with in a warm and connective way, and the rest  just falls into place.  peace

I agree with each one of your words Chilled
I would add just maybe have common goals?

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