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Best friend or Scapegoat ?

# 1  2/17/12 10:46 PM

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Having my loyalties tested just now   ,and its not nice   ............  you think your a friend  ,,and then find out your being blamed for a scenario ?  ........ not sure quite how to handle   ,but  its becoming clearer   ............

# 2  2/17/12 10:50 PM

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more please...got nowt to go on...who what where

# 3  2/17/12 10:56 PM

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Nothing to do with this site I have to add   .............  just folk you think are friends suddenly start to tell lies about   you  (  me  )   ,have to review things and get things in perspective





sorry  ,its waffle I know   ,but im in shock    ...........  how   " friends " can be so shallow   .........  thats probably why I havent got any  ,its safer in the long run  ,then you only have yourself to blame   

# 4  2/17/12 10:58 PM

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aries51 wrote:

Nothing to do with this site I have to add   .............  just folk you think are friends suddenly start to tell lies about   you  (  me  )   ,have to review things and get things in perspective

then they were never friends

maybe there is a reason they are saying whatever though. u wont know unless u ask

# 5  2/17/12 11:00 PM

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Miss_Lovely1 wrote:

aries51 wrote:

Nothing to do with this site I have to add   .............  just folk you think are friends suddenly start to tell lies about   you  (  me  )   ,have to review things and get things in perspective

then they were never friends

maybe there is a reason they are saying whatever though. u wont know unless u ask

Thats why Im better alone   ......  trust no one etc   ..... I d be good in the SAS     

# 6  2/17/12 11:01 PM

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aries51 wrote:

Nothing to do with this site I have to add   .............  just folk you think are friends suddenly start to tell lies about   you  (  me  )   ,have to review things and get things in perspective





sorry  ,its waffle I know   ,but im in shock    ...........  how   " friends " can be so shallow   .........  thats probably why I havent got any  ,its safer in the long run  ,then you only have yourself to blame   

oh I was only joking and its horrid when that happens...especially if you find out thay have been talking about you...personally I find men can be the most ruthless...

# 7  2/17/12 11:03 PM

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bustymalone wrote:

aries51 wrote:

Nothing to do with this site I have to add   .............  just folk you think are friends suddenly start to tell lies about   you  (  me  )   ,have to review things and get things in perspective





sorry  ,its waffle I know   ,but im in shock    ...........  how   " friends " can be so shallow   .........  thats probably why I havent got any  ,its safer in the long run  ,then you only have yourself to blame   

oh I was only joking and its horrid when that happens...especially if you find out thay have been talking about you...personally I find men can be the most ruthless...

i find  men will do anything to keep thier dicks oiled!  lol

# 8  2/17/12 11:08 PM

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bustymalone wrote:

aries51 wrote:

Nothing to do with this site I have to add   .............  just folk you think are friends suddenly start to tell lies about   you  (  me  )   ,have to review things and get things in perspective





sorry  ,its waffle I know   ,but im in shock    ...........  how   " friends " can be so shallow   .........  thats probably why I havent got any  ,its safer in the long run  ,then you only have yourself to blame   

oh I was only joking and its horrid when that happens...especially if you find out thay have been talking about you...personally I find men can be the most ruthless...

nooooo  ,its not a man ,thats the worst of it    ........... ,but  im a loner   ,and thats the best way I think   ,still lesson learnt as they say

# 9  2/17/12 11:28 PM

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aries51 wrote:

bustymalone wrote:

aries51 wrote:

Nothing to do with this site I have to add   .............  just folk you think are friends suddenly start to tell lies about   you  (  me  )   ,have to review things and get things in perspective





sorry  ,its waffle I know   ,but im in shock    ...........  how   " friends " can be so shallow   .........  thats probably why I havent got any  ,its safer in the long run  ,then you only have yourself to blame   

oh I was only joking and its horrid when that happens...especially if you find out thay have been talking about you...personally I find men can be the most ruthless...

nooooo  ,its not a man ,thats the worst of it    ........... ,but  im a loner   ,and thats the best way I think   ,still lesson learnt as they say

I'm not sure it is the best way. Good friends can be a great comfort throughout your life.

Sorry to hear you're going through a rough patch, maybe have a chat with them about things, it could simply be cross purposes??

# 10  2/18/12 12:00 AM

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Kadu12 wrote:

aries51 wrote:

bustymalone wrote:


oh I was only joking and its horrid when that happens...especially if you find out thay have been talking about you...personally I find men can be the most ruthless...

nooooo  ,its not a man ,thats the worst of it    ........... ,but  im a loner   ,and thats the best way I think   ,still lesson learnt as they say

I'm not sure it is the best way. Good friends can be a great comfort throughout your life.

Sorry to hear you're going through a rough patch, maybe have a chat with them about things, it could simply be cross purposes??

I dont think its like that at all Kads  unfortunately   ,but   one day maybe I  ll learn   ,damn  ...........

# 11  2/24/12 8:27 PM

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I ve had an apology since  ..... struggling with it though        ,once bitten twice shy ?

# 12  2/24/12 10:22 PM

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let's be lonely together

Funnily enough, my friend had her best friend betray her, telling lies about her. She gave her other chances for other times when she felt let down. But she could not see a way to forgive in this situation. Bit sad but I am also not a very forgiving person either it must be said.

# 13  2/24/12 10:31 PM

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My soon-to-be-**** brother-in-law was being sweetness and light to me while I was acting as go-between (jeez, what-alot-of-hyphens) while bad mouthing me behind my back. Apparently I was accused of siding with my sister, which is ironic as, despite **** loyalty, I really wasn't, and telling her everything he said to me. Well, duh - that was the point of passing messages between them   and in reality I wasn't, because I was editing out their insults!  But I really can't be bothered to hold it against him. I don't really know why.

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