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When guys/lasses let u down

# 1  1/7/12 7:29 PM

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patti16211 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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do u...

A SEND LOADS TEXTS....oops not a good idea...

B THINK, **** IT, LOADS MORE **** OUT THERE

C GO FOR A BEVVIE IN HIS LOCAL AND SLAG HIM OFF

D FEEL A **** WHEN HE HAS A LEGITAMATE EXCUSE!

**** CHOP HIS/HER/NETHER REIGONS OFF

# 2  1/7/12 7:31 PM

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ambrosia69 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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ask them why they did it. Sometimes there is a legit reason

# 3  1/7/12 7:37 PM

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patti16211 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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EASIER said love...was the sweetest person in the world and after my shite year...ha I fell for it....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr im a kinobhead

# 4  1/7/12 7:37 PM

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Dee1970 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Ask what happened.
            V
Decide if it's plausible. >  YES >  Give benefit of the doubt and try again
            V
           NO
            V
Tell him he's ill mannered, wish him luck,
but tell him not to waste my time by
contacting me again.


Dee

# 5  1/7/12 7:41 PM

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patti16211 wrote:

EASIER said love...was the sweetest person in the world and after my shite year...ha I fell for it....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr im a kinobhead

It's not knobheadish, knobheadilly?, to trust people until they let you down.  In hindsight it's always easy to see warning signs you missed, I suppose.  I've done that.  But the knobhead is the one that lets someone down with no good reason.  I take it he hasn't come up with a good reason?

Dee

# 6  1/7/12 8:05 PM

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aries51 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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ambrosia69 wrote:

ask them why they did it. Sometimes there is a legit reason

The  last guy to stand me up ,I emailed him to ask why   ,he had made a point of saying he had been stood up in the past  ........  when I went to check back ,he had blocked me   .........   ,his loss   ,and plenty more  ****   hotties around   

# 7  1/7/12 8:51 PM

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paul1100 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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B,except for the hunk bit

Trust nobody,life is simpler that way

# 8  1/7/12 8:54 PM

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TalentedAngel This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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patti16211 wrote:

do u...

A SEND LOADS TEXTS....oops not a good idea...

B THINK, **** IT, LOADS MORE **** OUT THERE

C GO FOR A BEVVIE IN HIS LOCAL AND SLAG HIM OFF

D FEEL A **** WHEN HE HAS A LEGITAMATE EXCUSE!

**** CHOP HIS/HER/NETHER REIGONS OFF

I would wait till he's asleep, put it in a splint and jump on board, thank god it's never happened.

# 9  1/7/12 8:54 PM

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Rat1960 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Never been stood up in my life.
Dumped is dumped and then silence is my answer.
After that I get the can we be friends calls, sigh.

# 10  1/7/12 8:58 PM

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DD_67 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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patti16211 wrote:

do u...

A SEND LOADS TEXTS....oops not a good idea...

B THINK, **** IT, LOADS MORE **** OUT THERE

C GO FOR A BEVVIE IN HIS LOCAL AND SLAG HIM OFF

D FEEL A **** WHEN HE HAS A LEGITAMATE EXCUSE!

**** CHOP HIS/HER/NETHER REIGONS OFF

It's a horrible thing to have happen to you, but when you have got over the hurt feeling and the feeling silly feeling, i think B is really the only option.  Anything else is a **** bit crazy and would scare anyone off.  But you already know that, don't you?

# 11  1/7/12 8:58 PM

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patti16211 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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cos my **** was a complete bell end..have a restraing order ect... am wary and ive bolloxed this new one  up and he was sweet too...bah ffs..

# 12  1/7/12 9:02 PM

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TalentedAngel This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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startime99 wrote:

Remember... not all men are total dicks

Mines nearly there and I love it

# 13  1/7/12 9:03 PM

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DD_67 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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patti16211 wrote:

cos my **** was a complete bell end..have a restraing order ect... am wary and ive bolloxed this new one  up and he was sweet too...bah ffs..

Did he have a good reason for letting you down?  Sometimes it happens, and maybe you've not bolloxed anything up.  We all react differently to things and maybe all he needs is a bit of time and space. 

(You don't HAVE to listen to me............i have a really annoying (so my sister says) habit of seeing things from all sides, so if you just think he's a tosser and not worth bothering with, forget i spoke)

# 14  1/7/12 9:05 PM

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patti16211 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Dee1970 wrote:

patti16211 wrote:

EASIER said love...was the sweetest person in the world and after my shite year...ha I fell for it....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr im a kinobhead

It's not knobheadish, knobheadilly?, to trust people until they let you down.  In hindsight it's always easy to see warning signs you missed, I suppose.  I've done that.  But the knobhead is the one that lets someone down with no good reason.  I take it he hasn't come up with a good reason?

Dee

no my fault, i called him a bastard tonight....regret it but he should have contacted me, am upset thought he was genuine....bah...never learn eh...

# 15  1/7/12 9:15 PM

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patti16211 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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DD_67 wrote:

patti16211 wrote:

cos my **** was a complete bell end..have a restraing order ect... am wary and ive bolloxed this new one  up and he was sweet too...bah ffs..

Did he have a good reason for letting you down?  Sometimes it happens, and maybe you've not bolloxed anything up.  We all react differently to things and maybe all he needs is a bit of time and space. 

(You don't HAVE to listen to me............i have a really annoying (so my sister says) habit of seeing things from all sides, so if you just think he's a tosser and not worth bothering with, forget i spoke)

he too just come out of a relationship and couldnt praise me enough when we met, was me that did the chat up line and we clicked, but maybe thats what he does to all the lasses..I feel like a knobhead...i vowed not to let a man hurt me again...ffs

# 16  1/7/12 9:17 PM

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patti16211 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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TalentedAngel wrote:

startime99 wrote:

Remember... not all men are total dicks

Mines nearly there and I love it

oi! ur one in a trillion....bah..

# 17  1/7/12 9:25 PM

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Rat1960 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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patti16211 wrote:

DD_67 wrote:

patti16211 wrote:

cos my **** was a complete bell end..have a restraing order ect... am wary and ive bolloxed this new one  up and he was sweet too...bah ffs..

Did he have a good reason for letting you down?  Sometimes it happens, and maybe you've not bolloxed anything up.  We all react differently to things and maybe all he needs is a bit of time and space. 

(You don't HAVE to listen to me............i have a really annoying (so my sister says) habit of seeing things from all sides, so if you just think he's a tosser and not worth bothering with, forget i spoke)

he too just come out of a relationship and couldnt praise me enough when we met, was me that did the chat up line and we clicked, but maybe thats what he does to all the lasses..I feel like a knobhead...i vowed not to let a man hurt me again...ffs

Then text him the chat-up line you used and if you want back and feel some fault add a sorry.
Of course you could be on double rebound.

Not that I know ****, since I was dumped on christmas day ...

# 18  1/7/12 9:26 PM

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TalentedAngel This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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patti16211 wrote:

TalentedAngel wrote:

startime99 wrote:

Remember... not all men are total dicks

Mines nearly there and I love it

oi! ur one in a trillion....bah..

On a serious note, if I called him a bastard he would see the funny side and take it on the chin, he's never serious which some would find hard to take but he believes you only have one life so you have to make the best out of it. I have tried to get him mad but it's just impossible and he would never ever let anyone down

# 19  1/8/12 12:34 AM

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pitbull12329 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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**** there best mate usually works

# 20  1/8/12 12:49 AM

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karsic_karl This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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paul1100 wrote:

B,except for the hunk bit

Trust nobody,life is simpler that way

But is it as exciting? Just a thought.

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