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# 1  1/8/13 9:08 PM

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I watched the last series, and the new one just started on Channel 4.

It's all about people who have added difficulty in their lives. Autism, dwarfism, OCD, tourettes, facial deformity, things like that. I was impressed by the courage of the people in the last series, dating is difficult for many of us, and added to that is their condition and trying in front of a television crew.

Doesn't everyone deserve love?

# 2  1/8/13 9:14 PM

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RitchieRich44 wrote:

I watched the last series, and the new one just started on Channel 4.

It's all about people who have added difficulty in their lives. Autism, dwarfism, OCD, tourettes, facial deformity, things like that. I was impressed by the courage of the people in the last series, dating is difficult for many of us, and added to that is their condition and trying in front of a television crew.

Doesn't everyone deserve love?

i always remember escorting my **** years ago to a social club for the disabled   there was a downs syndrome girl there and my **** said to me .... see mum shes got someone normal...  then he stood up ... he was 8 foot tall

its the most difficult thing in the world and yes why shouldnt they? although i couldnt imagine my **** with a ****

stars in the sky is good

# 3  1/8/13 9:15 PM

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Sorry Ritchie.....call me a vindictive ****....but no....there are some people who deserve nothing but misery....I can think of at least 2 exes that doesn't deserve anything other than a long and lonely life!
And don't let me get started on murderers and rapists.....

# 4  1/8/13 9:17 PM

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zaenia wrote:

Sorry Ritchie.....call me a vindictive ****....but no....there are some people who deserve nothing but misery....I can think of at least 2 exes that doesn't deserve anything other than a long and lonely life!
And don't let me get started on murderers and rapists.....

obviously not rapists and the like .... disabled though  it isnt their fault

# 5  1/8/13 9:19 PM

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zaenia wrote:

Sorry Ritchie.....call me a vindictive ****....but no....there are some people who deserve nothing but misery....I can think of at least 2 exes that doesn't deserve anything other than a long and lonely life!
And don't let me get started on murderers and rapists.....

I agree, Not everyone deserves or are capable of love. I include myself in that.

Was gonna watch this show as it kind of interests me but I am watching something light hearted

# 6  1/8/13 9:21 PM

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Yes they do. I watched some of the last series, and some of the people were just lovely.    It was also rather heartwarming to see one man with a facial disfigurement, who really thought he had no hope of getting a girlfriend, find someone 'normal' who liked him for himself. It might sound a bit wrong that that one stood out for me, but it was that there was no suspicion they were just settling for each other.

Are they still following people from the same dating agency, Rich?

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# 7  1/8/13 9:22 PM

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zaenia wrote:

Sorry Ritchie.....call me a vindictive ****....but no....there are some people who deserve nothing but misery....I can think of at least 2 exes that doesn't deserve anything other than a long and lonely life!
And don't let me get started on murderers and rapists.....

You're a vindictive ****.

And I don't believe anybody is irredeemably bad. Everybody deserves love, and perhaps if the people you mention had got the right love in the past (not a dig at you about the exes) maybe they wouldn't have turned out as they did

# 8  1/8/13 9:23 PM

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RitchieRich44 wrote:

zaenia wrote:

Sorry Ritchie.....call me a vindictive ****....but no....there are some people who deserve nothing but misery....I can think of at least 2 exes that doesn't deserve anything other than a long and lonely life!
And don't let me get started on murderers and rapists.....

You're a vindictive ****.

And I don't believe anybody is irredeemably bad. Everybody deserves love, and perhaps if the people you mention had got the right love in the past (not a dig at you about the exes) maybe they wouldn't have turned out as they did

Finger stuck on the button? or do you just like calling Z names?

# 9  1/8/13 9:23 PM

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ruby126228 wrote:

zaenia wrote:

Sorry Ritchie.....call me a vindictive ****....but no....there are some people who deserve nothing but misery....I can think of at least 2 exes that doesn't deserve anything other than a long and lonely life!
And don't let me get started on murderers and rapists.....

obviously not rapists and the like .... disabled though  it isnt their fault

Oh that goes without saying Ruby...was just answering the question in general as I really don't believe that every person deserves to be loved.

# 10  1/8/13 9:24 PM

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RitchieRich44 wrote:

zaenia wrote:

Sorry Ritchie.....call me a vindictive ****....but no....there are some people who deserve nothing but misery....I can think of at least 2 exes that doesn't deserve anything other than a long and lonely life!
And don't let me get started on murderers and rapists.....

You're a vindictive ****.

And I don't believe anybody is irredeemably bad. Everybody deserves love, and perhaps if the people you mention had got the right love in the past (not a dig at you about the exes) maybe they wouldn't have turned out as they did

Triple postie!  Triple postie!  It's not just me!

Dee

# 11  1/8/13 9:26 PM

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Dee1970 wrote:

RitchieRich44 wrote:

zaenia wrote:

Sorry Ritchie.....call me a vindictive ****....but no....there are some people who deserve nothing but misery....I can think of at least 2 exes that doesn't deserve anything other than a long and lonely life!
And don't let me get started on murderers and rapists.....

You're a vindictive ****.

And I don't believe anybody is irredeemably bad. Everybody deserves love, and perhaps if the people you mention had got the right love in the past (not a dig at you about the exes) maybe they wouldn't have turned out as they did

Triple postie!  Triple postie!  It's not just me!

Dee

Yeah, but went back and deleted the 'extras'
I don't think they're following a particular dating agency on this ocassion.

# 12  1/8/13 9:28 PM

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difficult too as they always have carers with them

# 13  1/8/13 9:30 PM

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Quotes so far:
"Why is everything so difficult?"
"Dogs are better companions than women anyway. And I'm allergic to animals"

Not so different after all then!

# 14  1/8/13 9:39 PM

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RitchieRich44 wrote:

zaenia wrote:

Sorry Ritchie.....call me a vindictive ****....but no....there are some people who deserve nothing but misery....I can think of at least 2 exes that doesn't deserve anything other than a long and lonely life!
And don't let me get started on murderers and rapists.....

You're a vindictive ****.

And I don't believe anybody is irredeemably bad. Everybody deserves love, and perhaps if the people you mention had got the right love in the past (not a dig at you about the exes) maybe they wouldn't have turned out as they did

Richard Trenton Chase - killed six people in the span of a month in California. He earned the nickname The Vampire of Sacramento due to his drinking of his victims’ blood and his cannibalism.
Jeffrey Dahmer - murdered at least 17 men and boys . His murders were particularly gruesome, involving acts of forced sodomy, necrophilia, dismemberment, and cannibalism. Dahmer committed his first murder when he was 18
Albert Fish - boasted that he molested over 100 ****, and was a suspect in at least five killings.
Andrei Chikatilo - was convicted of the murder of 53 women and ****
Joachim Krol - was convicted of eight murders but confessed to a total of 13.Kroll was arrested for kidnapping and killing a four-year-old girl named Marion Ketter. As **** went from home to home, a neighbor approached a policeman and told him that the waste-pipe in his apartment building had blocked up, and when he had asked his neighbor, Kroll, whether he knew what had been blocking the pipe, Kroll had simply replied; “Guts”. Upon this report, the **** went up to Kroll’s apartment and found the body of the Ketter girl cut up: some parts were in the fridge, a hand was cooking in a pan of boiling water and the intestines were found stuck in the waste-pipe.
Beverly Allitt - she is responsible for the murder of 4 **** and the serious injury of 5 others in her care.

Not gonna bother continueing the list....but I'm sure these "people" are all deserving of love

# 15  1/8/13 9:45 PM

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zaenia wrote:

RitchieRich44 wrote:

zaenia wrote:

Sorry Ritchie.....call me a vindictive ****....but no....there are some people who deserve nothing but misery....I can think of at least 2 exes that doesn't deserve anything other than a long and lonely life!
And don't let me get started on murderers and rapists.....

You're a vindictive ****.

And I don't believe anybody is irredeemably bad. Everybody deserves love, and perhaps if the people you mention had got the right love in the past (not a dig at you about the exes) maybe they wouldn't have turned out as they did

Richard Trenton Chase - killed six people in the span of a month in California. He earned the nickname The Vampire of Sacramento due to his drinking of his victims’ blood and his cannibalism.
Jeffrey Dahmer - murdered at least 17 men and boys . His murders were particularly gruesome, involving acts of forced sodomy, necrophilia, dismemberment, and cannibalism. Dahmer committed his first murder when he was 18
Albert Fish - boasted that he molested over 100 ****, and was a suspect in at least five killings.
Andrei Chikatilo - was convicted of the murder of 53 women and ****
Joachim Krol - was convicted of eight murders but confessed to a total of 13.Kroll was arrested for kidnapping and killing a four-year-old girl named Marion Ketter. As **** went from home to home, a neighbor approached a policeman and told him that the waste-pipe in his apartment building had blocked up, and when he had asked his neighbor, Kroll, whether he knew what had been blocking the pipe, Kroll had simply replied; “Guts”. Upon this report, the **** went up to Kroll’s apartment and found the body of the Ketter girl cut up: some parts were in the fridge, a hand was cooking in a pan of boiling water and the intestines were found stuck in the waste-pipe.
Beverly Allitt - she is responsible for the murder of 4 **** and the serious injury of 5 others in her care.

Not gonna bother continueing the list....but I'm sure these "people" are all deserving of love

Shall I remind him of the person who he told me to avoid because he was a psycho?   

# 16  1/8/13 9:52 PM

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zaenia wrote:

RitchieRich44 wrote:

zaenia wrote:

Sorry Ritchie.....call me a vindictive ****....but no....there are some people who deserve nothing but misery....I can think of at least 2 exes that doesn't deserve anything other than a long and lonely life!
And don't let me get started on murderers and rapists.....

You're a vindictive ****.

And I don't believe anybody is irredeemably bad. Everybody deserves love, and perhaps if the people you mention had got the right love in the past (not a dig at you about the exes) maybe they wouldn't have turned out as they did

Richard Trenton Chase - killed six people in the span of a month in California. He earned the nickname The Vampire of Sacramento due to his drinking of his victims’ blood and his cannibalism.
Jeffrey Dahmer - murdered at least 17 men and boys . His murders were particularly gruesome, involving acts of forced sodomy, necrophilia, dismemberment, and cannibalism. Dahmer committed his first murder when he was 18
Albert Fish - boasted that he molested over 100 ****, and was a suspect in at least five killings.
Andrei Chikatilo - was convicted of the murder of 53 women and ****
Joachim Krol - was convicted of eight murders but confessed to a total of 13.Kroll was arrested for kidnapping and killing a four-year-old girl named Marion Ketter. As **** went from home to home, a neighbor approached a policeman and told him that the waste-pipe in his apartment building had blocked up, and when he had asked his neighbor, Kroll, whether he knew what had been blocking the pipe, Kroll had simply replied; “Guts”. Upon this report, the **** went up to Kroll’s apartment and found the body of the Ketter girl cut up: some parts were in the fridge, a hand was cooking in a pan of boiling water and the intestines were found stuck in the waste-pipe.
Beverly Allitt - she is responsible for the murder of 4 **** and the serious injury of 5 others in her care.

Not gonna bother continuing the list....but I'm sure these "people" are all deserving of love

People are capable of monstrous acts. That may make them unlovable in most peoples eyes (Even murderer of (minimum) 13 women Peter Sutcliffe aka 'the Yorkshire Ripper' and London Gangster Reggie Kray got married in **** and I don't think that's uncommon), but not necessarily undeserving of love.
And 'The undatables' is actually about people who are handicapped in some way trying to find a partner.

# 17  1/8/13 9:59 PM

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RitchieRich44 wrote:

People are capable of monstrous acts. That may make them unlovable in most peoples eyes (Even murderer of (minimum) 13 women Peter Sutcliffe aka 'the Yorkshire Ripper' and London Gangster Reggie Kray got married in **** and I don't think that's uncommon), but not necessarily undeserving of love.
And 'The undatables' is actually about people who are handicapped in some way trying to find a partner.

Granted...and as I have not seen the series I apologise for taking your topic off thread.

# 18  1/8/13 10:01 PM

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another problem is if anyone so much as looks at them they are in love

# 19  1/8/13 10:03 PM

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ruby126228 wrote:

another problem is if anyone so much as looks at them they are in love

looks at who?

# 20  1/8/13 10:06 PM

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I've not seen the show, is that really the title of it?  It's kind of harsh.

To answer the question, i believe in love.  I believe that there is someone (or sometimes someones) for everybody.   I'm sorry to say though that if it was one of my **** embarking on a relationship under these circumstances i would be worried sick.  I find it hard enough to not worry about my **** who, thank God, have no major health issues, without adding diminished responsibility into the mix.  I'm sorry if that has come out wrong and offended anyone, it's not my intention.

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