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success stories on bn

# 1  7/24/11 2:41 PM

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daza1235 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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hello

i was just wondering is the success story section of this site made up or are these real stories of success? just wondering

# 2  7/24/11 9:15 PM

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Try checking out some of the profiles, the answers you seek may well be in the profiles. 

# 3  7/24/11 9:19 PM

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Quatermass1960 wrote:

Try checking out some of the profiles, the answers you seek may well be in the profiles. 

Most don't have it in their profiles, I do but lots don't, not saying I have looked, I would never do that.

# 4  7/24/11 9:21 PM

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Well at least one of them was real - Neo is a regular forum member and recently got married to her man.  I'm not sure if the Success Story she let them use will still be on display or if they replace them with newer ones.

Dee

# 5  7/24/11 9:22 PM

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there are lots of success stories but we all have different ideas on success   lots are together but not living together neo and john married .....TA and HM ....  some see each other when they can... some realised in time that THE OTHER PERSON lived in a fantasy world

# 6  7/24/11 9:26 PM

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honey-me wrote:

there are lots of success stories but we all have different ideas on success   lots are together but not living together neo and john married .....TA and HM ....  some see each other when they can... some realised in time that THE OTHER PERSON lived in a fantasy world

Mmmmmmmmmm I do, but I act out my fantasies

# 7  7/24/11 9:32 PM

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TalentedAngel wrote:

Quatermass1960 wrote:

Try checking out some of the profiles, the answers you seek may well be in the profiles. 

Most don't have it in their profiles, I do but lots don't, not saying I have looked, I would never do that.

I think there’s one women who posted a success story january 2011 but on the profile it states “been single now since january 2010” last on site tho “last week” followed by another statement “I have now decided to close my account” which it is not.

I find certain ones a bit suss.

# 8  7/24/11 9:37 PM

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Quatermass1960 wrote:

TalentedAngel wrote:

Quatermass1960 wrote:

Try checking out some of the profiles, the answers you seek may well be in the profiles. 

Most don't have it in their profiles, I do but lots don't, not saying I have looked, I would never do that.

I think there’s one women who posted a success story january 2011 but on the profile it states “been single now since january 2010” last on site tho “last week” followed by another statement “I have now decided to close my account” which it is not.

I find certain ones a bit suss.

Last time I looked I felt alot were about love, and not many about - other successes - and some of the love ones were very early on in a relationship.  It may be the site had done it's job at the time, but later a relationship folded.


We have our own success (or lack of success) threads in the forum, like this one http://forum.benaughty.com/In-answer-to … opic/20141

I can say I think it's been successful for me, although I haven't found my ideal, ie local regular friends. But I have made friends, friends with benefits, and on some occasions just the benefits.

Dee

# 9  7/24/11 9:45 PM

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Dee1970 wrote:

Quatermass1960 wrote:

TalentedAngel wrote:


Most don't have it in their profiles, I do but lots don't, not saying I have looked, I would never do that.

I think there’s one women who posted a success story january 2011 but on the profile it states “been single now since january 2010” last on site tho “last week” followed by another statement “I have now decided to close my account” which it is not.

I find certain ones a bit suss.

Last time I looked I felt alot were about love, and not many about - other successes - and some of the love ones were very early on in a relationship.  It may be the site had done it's job at the time, but later a relationship folded.


We have our own success (or lack of success) threads in the forum, like this one http://forum.benaughty.com/In-answer-to … opic/20141

I can say I think it's been successful for me, although I haven't found my ideal, ie local regular friends. But I have made friends, friends with benefits, and on some occasions just the benefits.

Dee

I was in full cynical mode then but yeah your probably right and taking into account women are always right then it has to be case of me being cynical.     

# 10  7/24/11 9:47 PM

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Quatermass1960 wrote:

I was in full cynical mode then but yeah your probably right and taking into account women are always right then it has to be case of me being cynical.     

Yeah well, I was being cynical about them too, just in a different way.

Dee

# 11  12/17/11 4:19 AM

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i posted a story which at the time was a sucess story but it folded when reality hit the other person big time. I have tried to remove or even update my story but cant, all the other stories I have read are very premature.
I have to agree success is a relative term, dependant on how you define success, if your looking for ons this is a great place to be a woman,  not too sure what else is on offer.
Ive just recently been chatting to several new guys all of whom seem sweet in one way or another, so hope springs eternal!!![

# 12  12/17/11 12:43 PM

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daza1235 wrote:

hello

i was just wondering is the success story section of this site made up or are these real stories of success? just wondering

Can't see if anyone has responded to you.

If you don't know any of the people off the forums it is easy to believe all the tales are put up jobs.
I am not employed by the company so am under no obligations.

Yes these are real people who have met via this site.
There have been many REAL WORLD relationships and friendships forged here.
Perhaps it is easier for this to happen in the UK as we are a titchy island.

There are a number of social events organised by forum useres that also helps.
A bunch of them are meeting up in London today.

# 13  8/14/13 10:24 PM

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Of course its all real, Yeah I'm loving all the responses I get here, especially the ones from girls who aren't even online at the time...... amazing how do they do it, not suggesting for a second there's anything fake or untoward going on ,ahhh the interweb and modern technology, great site pffft

# 14  8/14/13 10:28 PM

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I can vouch its real and there are sucess stories. I have now been with his Lordship for over three years and its definately a sucess.

# 15  8/14/13 10:35 PM

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Look thats great for you and half your luck, 3 years why are you still here? but as guys its a whole different ball game the entire dating game on the net is an overwhelming ****, designed to prey ultimately on guys, to be honest my success rate out in the real world is MUCH greater than online, most of my time online is spent sifting through garbage, ****, cammers affiliates blah blah

# 16  8/14/13 10:37 PM

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funny_pseudonym wrote:

Look thats great for you and half your luck, 3 years why are you still here? but as guys its a whole different ball game the entire dating game on the net is an overwhelming ****, designed to prey ultimately on guys, to be honest my success rate out in the real world is MUCH greater than online, most of my time online is spent sifting through garbage, ****, cammers affiliates blah blah

butt....your still here....

# 17  8/14/13 10:44 PM

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Yeah not for long I'm guessing, either the mods will kick me off or my good self will due to it being yet another waste of space on the net, look I'm not saying there isn't a place for this or any other sites but the scamming is a bit tiring, but on with it, kill a bit of time online during the day and go hook up for real at nigh....haha

Please refer to the link below which has several open threads on the subject of fakes/****.  It's helpful if all user comments can be kept together so please feel free to add any further concerns on one or all of the threads within the link.  moderator
http://www.benaughty.com/forum/Read-first/topic/88612.

# 18  8/15/13 2:06 AM

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TalentedAngel This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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funny_pseudonym wrote:

Look thats great for you and half your luck, 3 years why are you still here? but as guys its a whole different ball game the entire dating game on the net is an overwhelming ****, designed to prey ultimately on guys, to be honest my success rate out in the real world is MUCH greater than online, most of my time online is spent sifting through garbage, ****, cammers affiliates blah blah

Well it's been 3 1/2 years for me and why shouldn't we still come on here, we're allowed to have fun too you know and if they're ok with it why not.

# 19  8/15/13 2:45 AM

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yes I have been successful...I have had a great time on here, had the most amazing ****, been taken to some beautiful places,proposed to twice....and still managed to stay single.....thats a success to me

# 20  8/15/13 9:56 AM

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funny_pseudonym wrote:

Look thats great for you and half your luck, 3 years why are you still here? but as guys its a whole different ball game the entire dating game on the net is an overwhelming ****, designed to prey ultimately on guys, to be honest my success rate out in the real world is MUCH greater than online, most of my time online is spent sifting through garbage, ****, cammers affiliates blah blah

why shouldnt I be? Ive made some good mates on here and its good to catch up with them now and again. Its a free world and I dont think BN have a policy (yet) that bans couples from the site.

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