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Successful BN members give advice

# 1  3/12/09 2:43 PM

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BN_forum_moderator This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
Man, 43
Australia

Been Naughtiest

There are a lot of threads in the forum posted by new members and those asking to give some tips on finding a match on BN.

Dear members, before posting a new thread please use the SEARCH to check if the topic has already been discussed.

Answers to some of your questions could also be found if you check out these links:

Safety advice:

http://www.benaughty.com/index.php?chap … ng&s=s


Profile advice:

http://forum.benaughty.com/Profile-Advice/topic/4546


Sending  your first mail to the girl:

http://forum.benaughty.com/now-i-know-w … topic/9284

http://forum.benaughty.com/chat-up-line/topic/15943

http://forum.benaughty.com/Guys-Writtin … topic/5352


Blogging:

http://www.benaughty.com/blog/neofni_bl … ****%20is!!!!


First meet:

http://forum.benaughty.com/keeping-your … topic/9961

http://forum.benaughty.com/SOME-TIPS/topic/3185

http://forum.benaughty.com/1ST-MEETING/topic/2940

http://forum.benaughty.com/Etiquette/topic/pid/25145

Success:

http://forum.benaughty.com/Pulp-Comes-O … opic/16665

http://forum.benaughty.com/Another-succ … opic/15341

http://blog.benaughty.com/barbynaughty_ … everything

http://blog.benaughty.com/barbynaughty_ … 0time%20..

http://blog.benaughty.com/blog/neofni_b … %20success
http://forum.benaughty.com/How-to-be-Su … topic/7495

http://forum.benaughty.com/Why-I-love-BN/topic/4597

http://forum.benaughty.com/UP-UP-UP-AND-AWAY/topic/3744

http://forum.benaughty.com/I-WONDER/topic/3595


I hope this post will be frequently updated, especially its Success part.
Dear forumites, you are welcome to post your advice/success stories in this thread as well as links to other threads/blogs that you think could be useful for the members seeking your advice.

# 2  6/29/09 5:47 PM

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smartyarse This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Ireland
Mullingar
Been Naughtiest

great entry.

as there are a lot of men who are not getting anywhere and complaining about this site on the blog i suggest that you could email this blog to each member when they first join as it would be really helpful

# 3  7/28/09 5:34 AM

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kendoscorp This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
Man, 51
Australia
Warrnambool
Naughty newbie

Hi Girls. Congrats on your successful relationships. Anyway I was wondering do you have to be a paid member before you know if anyone has looked at your profile? I noticed even though you Neo have looked at my profile it hasn't shown up. I do plan to become a member real soon, but seeing what responses I get first. I'm not tight, but no use buying a membership and putting a profile here if no-one is going to look at it. By the way Neo. I changed my intro line. Thanks for the advice. Have a great day. Ken ****

# 4  9/28/09 9:30 AM

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want1thing wrote:

I've read heaps of threads blogs and can't find out what it says on your credit card statement, does it say be naughty or is it a bit more discrete?? It's the only thing holding me back from full membership.

The credit card statement will include the name of the company, i.****. EasyDate and might include the name of the payment gateway (Click&Buy for example).

Good luck!

Respectfully,
BN_forum_moderator

# 5  11/24/09 9:24 AM

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Recently I have added these two blogs to the 'Success' part:

http://blog.benaughty.com/barbynaughty_ … everything

http://blog.benaughty.com/geoff8_blog/2 … fast%20sex

barbynaughty and geoff8, thanks for sharing your thoughts with BeNaughty community.

Respectfully,
BN_Moderator

# 6  11/26/09 11:16 AM

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Been Naughtiest

I have added Pulp-Fiction's testimonial to the 'Success' part. He has found what he's been looking for, and may be even more

Thanks for sharing your success with BeNaughty community, Pulp and Barby.

BeNaughty wishes you all the best of luck!

Respectfully,
BN_Moderator

# 7  3/18/10 7:32 AM

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Chrysalis2010 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
Woman, 53
Australia
Melbourne
Naughty newbie

BN_forum_moderator wrote:

There are a lot of threads in the forum posted by new members and those asking to give some tips on finding a match on BN.

Dear members, before posting a new thread please use the SEARCH to check if the topic has already been discussed.

Answers to some of your questions could also be found if you check out these links:

Safety advice:

http://www.benaughty.com/index.php?chap … ng&s=s


Profile advice:

http://forum.benaughty.com/Profile-Advice/topic/4546

Choosing your profile photo:

http://forum.benaughty.com/face-pictures/topic/6837


Sending  your first mail to the girl:

http://forum.benaughty.com/now-i-know-w … topic/9284

http://forum.benaughty.com/chat-up-line/topic/15943

http://forum.benaughty.com/Guys-Writtin … topic/5352


Blogging:

http://www.benaughty.com/blog/neofni_bl … ****%20is!!!!


First meet:

http://forum.benaughty.com/keeping-your … topic/9961

http://forum.benaughty.com/SOME-TIPS/topic/3185

http://forum.benaughty.com/1ST-MEETING/topic/2940

http://forum.benaughty.com/Etiquette/topic/pid/25145

Success:

http://forum.benaughty.com/Pulp-Comes-O … opic/16665

http://forum.benaughty.com/Another-succ … opic/15341

http://blog.benaughty.com/barbynaughty_ … everything

http://blog.benaughty.com/barbynaughty_ … 0time%20..

http://blog.benaughty.com/blog/neofni_b … %20success
http://forum.benaughty.com/How-to-be-Su … topic/7495

http://forum.benaughty.com/Why-I-love-BN/topic/4597

http://forum.benaughty.com/UP-UP-UP-AND-AWAY/topic/3744

http://forum.benaughty.com/I-WONDER/topic/3595

I hope this post will be frequently updated, especially its Success part.
Dear forumites, you are welcome to post your advice/success stories in this thread as well as links to other threads/blogs that you think could be useful for the members seeking your advice.

Hi,
How do I arrange for a profile for a couple and what are the costs etc are involved.
Cheers,
Colleen

# 8  3/18/10 7:53 AM

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bustymalone This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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United Kingdom
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well I have been successful in as much as looking and testing for the man of my dreams have had some great times and met some wonderful men on here, genuine and generous...I do love the Australian men tho..love it when they all pile in from their day:- they are as adorable as my regular men friends on here too (don't want to upset the apple cart)...I am not actually after a relationship as such..I am after a good strong **** man who can please my body and I his every so often (more often than not in my case)..

# 9  3/18/10 9:44 AM

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Been Naughtiest

Hi,
How do I arrange for a profile for a couple and what are the costs etc are involved.
Cheers,
Colleen

Hi and welcome Coleen.
As far as i can see, you are already registered as a couple. The costs are shown on the payment page, you just need to click Upgrade button. Just in case, here are current prices for  couples from Australia:

                      Platinum          Gold           
12 months       104,99 AUD      94,99 AUD       
6   months       84,99               74,99
3 months         49,99               44,99
1 month          29,99                24,99   

Hope it helps.

Please post such questions to Help section of the site next time

Respectfully,
BN_Moderator

# 10  3/18/10 9:46 AM

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BN_Moderator This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Australia

Been Naughtiest

bustymalone wrote:

well I have been successful in as much as looking and testing for the man of my dreams have had some great times and met some wonderful men on here, genuine and generous...I do love the Australian men tho..love it when they all pile in from their day:- they are as adorable as my regular men friends on here too (don't want to upset the apple cart)...I am not actually after a relationship as such..I am after a good strong **** man who can please my body and I his every so often (more often than not in my case)..

It's so nice to hear that you are having fun on the site

Respectfully,
BN_Moderator

# 11  8/27/10 8:15 AM

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want1thing wrote:

I've read heaps of threads blogs and can't find out what it says on your credit card statement, does it say be naughty or is it a bit more discrete?? It's the only thing holding me back from full membership.

What it actually said on my bank statement was "WWW.BENAUGHTY.COM".

I was so unimpressed, I posted on this forum and was advised by a moderator to complain to support. I have done this twice and all I have had is one acknowledgement to the first complaint and nothing else.

Still waiting.

Pi*s poor service all round.

# 12  3/23/11 6:52 PM

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aries51 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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For ladies   ......................  check the height and weight ratio  ,it is soooooooo obvious  when the profiles are fake   .  Like   Ive just got a really thick set guy mailing me from USA    says he only weighs  10st 3lbs     ........... yeah maybe when he was born pmsl

# 13  4/2/11 9:25 PM

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davma3632 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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United Kingdom
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Naughty newbie

aries51 wrote:

For ladies   ......................  check the height and weight ratio  ,it is soooooooo obvious  when the profiles are fake   .  Like   Ive just got a really thick set guy mailing me from USA    says he only weighs  10st 3lbs     ........... yeah maybe when he was born pmsl

aye i know wat u mean im thick set were it matters lol erm im 12 st 7 and id say im medium!

# 14  7/27/11 9:01 AM

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aries51 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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aries51 wrote:

For ladies   ......................  check the height and weight ratio  ,it is soooooooo obvious  when the profiles are fake   .  Like   Ive just got a really thick set guy mailing me from USA    says he only weighs  10st 3lbs     ........... yeah maybe when he was born pmsl

Just had another weighing  7st 9 ibs   ..................  der reported   as a fake 

# 15  5/12/12 10:56 AM

marle7675 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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United States
Beverly Hills
Naughty newbie

I  posted a picture on my profile that was not me by mistake,i have removed the photo but i still cant access the chqt rooms to video chat.iv **** been blocked ,can you help  me to have the block removed, i would appreciate it very much thank you.

# 16  5/15/12 1:31 PM

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Amigo469 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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marle7675 wrote:

I  posted a picture on my profile that was not me by mistake,i have removed the photo but i still cant access the chqt rooms to video chat.iv **** been blocked ,can you help  me to have the block removed, i would appreciate it very much thank you.

I am sorry to hear you have a problem accessing the chat rooms.  You might find a more receptive ear in the proper forum for this topic.  I would try sending a message directly to support. (Where it says "contact us" at the bottom of the page.)

# 17  8/13/13 6:50 AM

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micha21532 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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I was 6 lb when born and now 11 stone soaking wet and 178 tall or 5 ft 10 which means slim? That okay for you or do you like stocky types

# 18  12/20/13 12:28 AM

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sunnydelite This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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None of these links seem to work now the site has been "improved".

# 19  12/20/13 1:49 AM

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sunnydelite wrote:

None of these links seem to work now the site has been "improved".

Yep!! I have noticed too and if you try to search for a topic it only gives result from the improved date

# 20  2/12/14 2:23 PM

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micha21532 wrote:

I was 6 lb when born and now 11 stone soaking wet and 178 tall or 5 ft 10 which means slim? That okay for you or do you like stocky types

totally i am a girl... my gender is wrong... if you want to chat or text me here......[Your post has been edited. Contact details are not allowed in the forum. Moderator]

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