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# 21  2/2/14 12:44 PM

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RitchieRich44 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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United Kingdom
Cambridge
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A-Woman wrote:

Wylie wrote:

Enjoy the moment and if he really wants to go the distance with you, then that could be the catalysis for him to improve his lifestyle.

maybe ....

I don't think you'll change him HW. Some people can live to old age despite leading a poor lifestyle, and some fall apart in their 20's. If he's still fit now in his mid 50's there's no real reason to think he's going to cark it tomorrow, or at least no more than for the rest of us, so go for It!

# 22  2/2/14 12:45 PM

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metallica wrote:

A-Woman wrote:

rodsrule wrote:


like they say, you never know what will happen tomorrow
so jump his bones and enjoy the ride besides 55 an it that old

I have jumped his bones   ....I want more of that .....it is not his age that bothers me it's he eats unhealthy and smoke cigars, really doesn't care . With that he is very exciting , unusual and know what a woman wants . Well at least this one

Would you get attached to somebody really doesn't care about his health?  I  can't do the **** thing with him...

ohhh...tricky one this HW.....i think i would suggest he gets a full medical to assess his health.....and then you can make YOUR decision  based on the out ****.....if he refuses....then i would walk away....coz he obviously dont give a toss about you.....

as has bin said already....most blokes are **** scared to go the DRs....coz they are afraid of being told the truth...

buttt....dont beat about the bush...(twould appear your past that stage).......talk to him properly....tell him how YOU feel...and your concerns.....BUTTT be prepared for him to tell YOU to do one....

problem solved.......simples.........

good luck....

Thank you Mettie!!
Like always great  advise straight to the point

Very early ....not sure he is 'boyfriend material ' but if he is I will follow your suggestion ****

# 23  2/2/14 12:51 PM

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RitchieRich44 wrote:

A-Woman wrote:

Wylie wrote:

Enjoy the moment and if he really wants to go the distance with you, then that could be the catalysis for him to improve his lifestyle.

maybe ....

I don't think you'll change him HW. Some people can live to old age despite leading a poor lifestyle, and some fall apart in their 20's. If he's still fit now in his mid 50's. If there's no real reason to think he's going to cark it tomorrow, or at least no more than for the rest of us, then go for It!

Thanks Ritchie !  Yup I recognize I am afraid of open up and get my heart broken.....He is out of my 'safety net'  after all I have been tru but maybe he is the right one?
Option one : not open myself go half the way . Not sure I can do it with him....He is more alpha than me ....

# 24  2/2/14 1:59 PM

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justmandm This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Ireland
Cork City
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A-Woman wrote:

Hey peeps,

Here is my dilemma ....Would love to hear your opinions

For the first time in my life I am very attracted to a + 10 year older than me. He has energy of a 25 yrs old and certainly plays like one !

Suddenly I am afraid something might happen to him. I know all rational about living the moment, enjoy every min but....I am concerned to get too attached.

What do I do? Do I take distance not to get hurt or I let him in ?

Would love to hear your experience, thanks!

He sounds ideal to me and think I might just take the risk......while I'm feeling brave and go for it...good luck xx

# 25  2/2/14 6:24 PM

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justmandm wrote:

A-Woman wrote:

Hey peeps,

Here is my dilemma ....Would love to hear your opinions

For the first time in my life I am very attracted to a + 10 year older than me. He has energy of a 25 yrs old and certainly plays like one !

Suddenly I am afraid something might happen to him. I know all rational about living the moment, enjoy every min but....I am concerned to get too attached.

What do I do? Do I take distance not to get hurt or I let him in ?

Would love to hear your experience, thanks!

He sounds ideal to me and think I might just take the risk......while I'm feeling brave and go for it...good luck xx

Yeah...I might...will see how he behaves
Kisses

# 26  2/2/14 6:28 PM

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justmandm This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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A-Woman wrote:

justmandm wrote:

A-Woman wrote:

Hey peeps,

Here is my dilemma ....Would love to hear your opinions

For the first time in my life I am very attracted to a + 10 year older than me. He has energy of a 25 yrs old and certainly plays like one !

Suddenly I am afraid something might happen to him. I know all rational about living the moment, enjoy every min but....I am concerned to get too attached.

What do I do? Do I take distance not to get hurt or I let him in ?

Would love to hear your experience, thanks!

He sounds ideal to me and think I might just take the risk......while I'm feeling brave and go for it...good luck xx

Yeah...I might...will see how he behaves
Kisses

OOOOoooooo keep us posted.... and have fun ..

# 27  2/2/14 6:30 PM

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justmandm wrote:

A-Woman wrote:

justmandm wrote:


He sounds ideal to me and think I might just take the risk......while I'm feeling brave and go for it...good luck xx

Yeah...I might...will see how he behaves
Kisses

OOOOoooooo keep us posted.... and have fun ..

He is the pure definition of FUN with Cap. F 
So much to learn...

# 28  2/2/14 6:32 PM

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justmandm This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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A-Woman wrote:

justmandm wrote:

A-Woman wrote:


Yeah...I might...will see how he behaves
Kisses

OOOOoooooo keep us posted.... and have fun ..

He is the pure definition of FUN with Cap. F 
So much to learn...

OOOOOOOOOoooooooooo.....am sooooooooooooo jealous....

# 29  2/3/14 6:34 AM

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TalentedAngel This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Adelaide
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A-Woman wrote:

TalentedAngel wrote:

Well I don't think you have to guess my view. 13 years on me and I'm glad I didn't listen to anyone. Go for it sweetie and enjoy every moment.

When I started writing was thinking about you guys.
If HM is around pls ask him ?  Could do with his thoughts

He's away for a couple of days so when he gets back

# 30  2/3/14 10:40 AM

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player This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Go for it and try not to look back. life’s to short to be messing about, its better to know you’ve tried than to live a life of what ifs

alternatively  you could end up with me..

# 31  2/3/14 12:11 PM

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player wrote:

Go for it and try not to look back. life’s to short to be messing about, its better to know you’ve tried than to live a life of what ifs

alternatively  you could end up with me..

Very true

Hehe you are a real player

# 32  2/8/14 10:35 PM

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I know I'm joining late and maybe you have made your mind up, but I would say follow your heart on this one. If you don't the regrets could be very heavy.. There's a lot worse faults than living life to the full - good luck xx

# 33  2/8/14 11:22 PM

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TalentedAngel wrote:

A-Woman wrote:

TalentedAngel wrote:

Well I don't think you have to guess my view. 13 years on me and I'm glad I didn't listen to anyone. Go for it sweetie and enjoy every moment.

When I started writing was thinking about you guys.
If HM is around pls ask him ?  Could do with his thoughts

He's away for a couple of days so when he gets back

He said the same as me

# 34  2/9/14 12:41 AM

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paulm wrote:

I know I'm joining late and maybe you have made your mind up, but I would say follow your heart on this one. If you don't the regrets could be very heavy.. There's a lot worse faults than living life to the full - good luck xx

Thanks Paul!
It's not too late

# 35  2/9/14 12:47 AM

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TalentedAngel wrote:

TalentedAngel wrote:

A-Woman wrote:


When I started writing was thinking about you guys.
If HM is around pls ask him ?  Could do with his thoughts

He's away for a couple of days so when he gets back

He said the same as me

Thank you TA give a kissie to HM from me.
I think in this case if I pursue  I am heading for a heart break, not what I want....Many fish in the sea!

The good thing is I am getting clear with myself what I don't want , from there all options open!

# 36  2/9/14 12:55 AM

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TalentedAngel This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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A-Woman wrote:

TalentedAngel wrote:

TalentedAngel wrote:


He's away for a couple of days so when he gets back

He said the same as me

Thank you TA give a kissie to HM from me.
I think in this case if I pursue  I am heading for a heart break, not what I want....Many fish in the sea!

The good thing is I am getting clear with myself what I don't want , from there all options open!

He just said with a bum like that how can anyone resist you

# 37  2/9/14 1:02 AM

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TalentedAngel wrote:

A-Woman wrote:

TalentedAngel wrote:


He said the same as me

Thank you TA give a kissie to HM from me.
I think in this case if I pursue  I am heading for a heart break, not what I want....Many fish in the sea!

The good thing is I am getting clear with myself what I don't want , from there all options open!

He just said with a bum like that how can anyone resist you

I know ...I want it all.. Very few can handle it

# 38  2/9/14 1:37 AM

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A-Woman wrote:

paulm wrote:

I know I'm joining late and maybe you have made your mind up, but I would say follow your heart on this one. If you don't the regrets could be very heavy.. There's a lot worse faults than living life to the full - good luck xx

Thanks Paul!
It's not too late

Sweet ****, no wonder he's full of vim and vigour you've just taken a few years off me

# 39  2/9/14 2:08 AM

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A-Woman wrote:

TalentedAngel wrote:

TalentedAngel wrote:


He's away for a couple of days so when he gets back

He said the same as me

Thank you TA give a kissie to HM from me.
I think in this case if I pursue  I am heading for a heart break, not what I want....Many fish in the sea!

The good thing is I am getting clear with myself what I don't want , from there all options open!

Knowing what you want is half the battle

# 40  2/9/14 2:19 AM

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Hey scotsbirb I'd love you to be my older lady so I could find out if it's true that older women are sexier and better in bed ****

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