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OK more issues - now I have a chat message counter that doesn't clear!

# 41  12/6/11 9:32 AM

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DD_67 wrote:

BogRoll wrote:

Can a moderator clear this for me again please?

I'll pass it on for you

I've cleared it. Apologies for the inconvenience.

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# 42  12/6/11 10:37 PM

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Thank you again

# 43  12/15/11 2:35 PM

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eeerrrrrmmmm dave, sorry to bother you, but i've got five klingons again. they've been around for a few days now and they're starting to bug me.

# 44  12/16/11 10:33 PM

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I have one too... can you please get rid, thanks.

# 45  12/24/11 5:56 PM

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I have two that won't go away - its annoying you think Oh someone new then it isn't and these two are women and I can't talk to them anyway

# 46  12/24/11 9:29 PM

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startime99 wrote:

Pop up messages are annoying.

Sometimes it says I have one and turns out I have like 5 when I click on chat... weird .
Winks are more annoying tho

Sorry.
I'll stop winking at you.
More of a nervous tick really.

# 47  12/24/11 9:36 PM

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startime99 wrote:

karsic_karl wrote:

startime99 wrote:

Pop up messages are annoying.

Sometimes it says I have one and turns out I have like 5 when I click on chat... weird .
Winks are more annoying tho

Sorry.
I'll stop winking at you.
More of a nervous tick really.

Haha dont u think they are a bit pointless tho, and its usually people who dont even look at ur profile, not that i want them to.

They are **** pointless.
Suppose it gives the blokes who haven't paid the impression they are making contact with someone.
Only problem is when they do get a reply they can't read it.
Thereby upping the frustration level to the point at which they might **** and subscribe.
They then get to chat with a lass who might turn out to be intimidating

# 48  12/24/11 9:54 PM

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I now have the guy who just spewed abuse at me as a klingon. Merry Xmas BN brillian present thanks 

# 49  12/24/11 9:59 PM

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startime99 wrote:

karsic_karl wrote:

startime99 wrote:

Pop up messages are annoying.

Sometimes it says I have one and turns out I have like 5 when I click on chat... weird .
Winks are more annoying tho

Sorry.
I'll stop winking at you.
More of a nervous tick really.

Haha dont u think they are a bit pointless tho, and its usually people who dont even look at ur profile, not that i want them to.

I've winked back at people that I liked the look of and ended up chatting/meeting. So no, they're not entirely useless. People just find their own way of using the site.


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# 50  12/24/11 10:09 PM

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startime99 wrote:

Dee1970 wrote:

startime99 wrote:


Haha dont u think they are a bit pointless tho, and its usually people who dont even look at ur profile, not that i want them to.

I've winked back at people that I liked the look of and ended up chatting/meeting. So no, they're not entirely useless. People just find their own way of using the site.


Dee

If I liked someone I would message them, 'winking' at someone seems a bit lazy to me.

Maybe it is, maybe it isn't.  Often people wink then contact. I've done it myself when I didn't have time to talk but wanted to a ) let them know I'd noticed them, and b ) give myself a link to use to get back to them later. 

Out of curiosity would you reject someone who winked because it seemed lazy?  If they were someone you might otherwise have contacted if you'd seen them in a search or some other way first?

Dee

# 51  12/24/11 10:21 PM

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startime99 wrote:

Dee1970 wrote:

startime99 wrote:


If I liked someone I would message them, 'winking' at someone seems a bit lazy to me.

Maybe it is, maybe it isn't.  Often people wink then contact. I've done it myself when I didn't have time to talk but wanted to a ) let them know I'd noticed them, and b ) give myself a link to use to get back to them later. 

Out of curiosity would you reject someone who winked because it seemed lazy?  If they were someone you might otherwise have contacted if you'd seen them in a search or some other way first?

Dee

If someone had winked at me, I would wait until they messaged me first and actually said they were interested...
I rarely look at the people who winked anyway, because I have enough messages as it is to look at those too

Fair points, and I don't do more than look at what winks have come in to see if any of the pictures catch my eye and their location.  It's just another way of browsing to me, but with the knowledge these are people that are actually interested.  I can see that's less of an issue for single women!  

But then I've also ended up making first contact with someone because he browsed our profile several times in one evening and had a gorgeous smile. Again it suggested to me that he was interested, and I was right.  He hadn't got in touch because our profile is worded to put single men off. But I still had **** with him

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# 52  12/25/11 5:31 PM

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I have never responded to awink because i thought they were a flirtcast I have not got a clue what a kinglon whatever it is IS!

# 53  12/26/11 1:02 PM

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Bump .. Dave can you clear my stuck pop up please

# 54  12/26/11 1:46 PM

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Miss_Lovely1 wrote:

Bump .. Dave can you clear my stuck pop up please

I've cleared it for you

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# 55  12/26/11 1:49 PM

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Moderator wrote:

Miss_Lovely1 wrote:

Bump .. Dave can you clear my stuck pop up please

I've cleared it for you

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Cheers Dave... Merry Xmas

# 56  1/14/12 1:51 AM

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Grrrr, another one.  I'll see if it clears tomorrow, before I ask you to remove it, Dave. But how long until the underlying problem gets fixed?

Dee

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