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Looks vs Personality

# 41  4/25/14 9:27 PM

VanHalenjump This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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I agree someone can be very handsome or beautiful, but their personality can make them an ugly person too.A good personality can make someone not so gifted in looks ,make them very attractive to others.

# 42  4/26/14 1:52 AM

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kate This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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agreed the most important to me is having good personality than looks.. yes, looks is added but personality is a must it is better to have good personality rather having a looks.. it doesn't work if you are just having a looks but your personality is so dumb..!! make sense of it..

# 43  4/26/14 2:07 AM

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lonelylibran This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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So, the vast majority of the women who replied, regardless of how good looking they are, agree that it's looks initially but, without the personality to back up the good looks, see ya...

However, I found it amusing that the better looking a male is, the more important looks are to him... Interesting

# 44  4/26/14 2:14 AM

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davel2985 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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i have a great personallity.....wow its fantastic...But i get annoyed with anyone who says ..i am boreing..I get quite mad at that
and start hitting people.............not out of nastyness,,but i just like to put people right..............
ITS my job in life to put people right....even if they END up in hospital...
                                                but
I Would change ,,if i had the chance...........20% less funny personality.........20% better looking

god was cruel with me..........when i was old enough to shave....i had to look at the better looking picture of

The elephant man..........to shave....................to stop me crying....

  ..................




          disclaimer .......this is a joke

# 45  4/26/14 2:16 AM

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TalentedAngel This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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lonelylibran wrote:

So, the vast majority of the women who replied, regardless of how good looking they are, agree that it's looks initially but, without the personality to back up the good looks, see ya...

However, I found it amusing that the better looking a male is, the more important looks are to him... Interesting

Really I had to go back and check and I found it was personality first

# 46  4/26/14 5:42 AM

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metallica This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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and there are sum of us that are just blessed with BOTH ...and are BUTCH N MANLY to boot ....

# 47  4/26/14 3:14 PM

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ambrosia69 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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lonelylibran wrote:

So, the vast majority of the women who replied, regardless of how good looking they are, agree that it's looks initially but, without the personality to back up the good looks, see ya...

However, I found it amusing that the better looking a male is, the more important looks are to him... Interesting

what difference does how good the women look make to their response??

actually the women who replied go for personality first

# 48  4/26/14 6:18 PM

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chaosmaker This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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ambrosia69 wrote:

lonelylibran wrote:

So, the vast majority of the women who replied, regardless of how good looking they are, agree that it's looks initially but, without the personality to back up the good looks, see ya...

However, I found it amusing that the better looking a male is, the more important looks are to him... Interesting

what difference does how good the women look make to their response??

actually the women who replied go for personality first

yes they did, but I agree that the guys who consider themselves 'hot' seem to have the opinion that looks are all important..... 


To the OP,  the guy your friend is with is obviously NOT unattractive to her which is all that really matters,  your opinion on his looks is irrelevent!

# 49  4/26/14 6:34 PM

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metallica wrote:

and there are sum of us that are just blessed with BOTH ...and are BUTCH N MANLY to boot ....

Ooooh you'll have to point them out

# 50  4/26/14 7:08 PM

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metallica This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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chaosmaker wrote:

metallica wrote:

and there are sum of us that are just blessed with BOTH ...and are BUTCH N MANLY to boot ....

Ooooh you'll have to point them out

the clues there missis......US....asin.....ME ......NOW.....you point yours out missis...

# 51  4/27/14 12:06 AM

BettyBoop This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Looks come and go. A good personality is definitely more important.  Especially if they can satisfy you sexually is definitely more important than looks.

# 52  4/27/14 11:29 PM

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1steelheart This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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personality is more important. Sometimes it's what's on the inside that is the best side of the person. Be willing to look past the looks and see who's on the inside

# 53  4/27/14 11:54 PM

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RitchieRich This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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chaosmaker wrote:

metallica wrote:

and there are sum of us that are just blessed with BOTH ...and are BUTCH N MANLY to boot ....

Ooooh you'll have to point them out

Ahem

# 54  4/28/14 3:11 AM

FoolKeane This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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looks are important for initial attraction but without the personality you are boring. personalities can be even more attractive then looks. gags can be handy for hotties without the personality

# 55  5/1/14 5:56 AM

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savvy This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Looks get ya there, personality keeps ya there.

# 56  5/8/14 8:36 AM

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nfe19 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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remember love is more than skin deep otherwise there would be a **** lot of you on here with no hope

# 57  5/8/14 6:31 PM

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trill This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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I find a man attractive only when I like his personality. Unfortunately the ones with the good personalities are usually attached for obvious reasons.

# 58  5/8/14 6:36 PM

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pitbull This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Good to see IT is talking sense


Personality counts for naff all if you want a **** . . .Nobody **** somebody for the personality. . . If you do then your a tart . . "Aw he seems nice ill **** him"  . . ****

Looks win every time . . Ugly guys who maybe lovely get **** women . .of course . .There loaded they have the wallet to make up for there offensive looks simples . . .

In a club looks count for everything. . . Online they count for most things

# 59  5/10/14 4:37 PM

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sxciain This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Personality over looks

# 60  5/15/14 4:16 AM

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dave25495 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Personality can be a great thing & overcome a lot, unfortunately it does not always with some shame as they maybe loosing outto a great guy or gal xx

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