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Basic "Rules " for arranging meets

# 1  3/19/12 3:03 PM

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aries51 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Im sure there are lots of threads on this  , thought we can always do a refresher   ,please close it  if it s not appopriate ............

Im not sure about  males and females having the same agenda  .........

1.  Is it a meet just for **** ? 

2. Do you have anything  in common  ...... do you care if you do or not  ?

3.  Do you know what the person looks like   ...... do you care ? 

4.  Do you know whos  funding  ,if its a hotel /meal deal  .

5 . Is it safe  ............

Im sure there are lots of other things   ....... I was just having a discussion with someone  and realised I do have a very strong set of  " Golden rules "  so I dont get hurt physically or emotionally   ,or   financially

# 2  3/19/12 3:21 PM

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Kadu12 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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I only have two

Always a public place

No expectations

# 3  3/28/12 1:32 AM

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kris_Luvs2fuck This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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All i get on this site is **** girls trying to get me to sign up or id verfiy before we meet its bullshit that some people wrecks the site like this ,Im just wodering if admin checks the girls its BS.

# 4  3/28/12 1:38 AM

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disorderly This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Kadu12 wrote:

I only have two

Always a public place

No expectations

Best way to be about it really - the glorious internet can easily hide a variety of agendas. Silly to go in to a meet with anything other than options imo. Only expectation is
to **** your own way but not the other's, unless you decide to... If things progress then other avevnues, expectations, etc. can be explored.

# 5  3/28/12 6:51 AM

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kris_Luvs2fuck This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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YES SO PELASE LADIES DONT ASK THE SAME OLD BULLSHIT QUESTION TO ME FOR ID VERIFY JUST FOR SAFE MEETINGS BULLSHIT TELL ME WHERE DOES IT SAY ON BENAUGHTY.COM ABOUT ID VERIFY JUST FOR SAFE MEETINGS???? FAKE SAKES

# 6  3/28/12 7:42 AM

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Smike144 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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only one rule :

1.  Turn up !!

everything else goes with the flow ....


# 7  3/28/12 7:44 AM

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Smike144 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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kris_Luvs2fuck wrote:

YES SO PELASE LADIES DONT ASK THE SAME OLD BULLSHIT QUESTION TO ME FOR ID VERIFY JUST FOR SAFE MEETINGS BULLSHIT TELL ME WHERE DOES IT SAY ON BENAUGHTY.COM ABOUT ID VERIFY JUST FOR SAFE MEETINGS???? FAKE SAKES

No need to shout we heard you the first time .......

(and yes it is a real problem, but you soon get wise to it ...)

# 8  3/28/12 10:51 AM

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bustymalone This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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1) show a RECENT pic instead of saying how much different you look from "recent" pic..just take another one on the day...much easier to recognize then

2)  Dont lie

3) make sure you reply to response in the same profile you posted to potential **** in the first place

4) meet in a public place ...if you got something to hide, dont make bullshit excuses WHY you cant meet in public, TELL THE TRUTH

5) bring condoms etc JUST IN CASE the other person is lying and they DO have a disease...better to be safe than sorry and if other person is genuine, they will understand

6) If just meeting for coffee, enjoy....if no arrangements to meet another time when you depart....you just dont gel man

# 9  3/28/12 12:57 PM

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kris_Luvs2fuck This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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That's what Some Australian girls on this site should read,instead of trying to **** me or other guys on this site by asking id verify as excuse for safe meetings.BS..SO ladies do not advertise if you aint for real please.

# 10  3/28/12 1:35 PM

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kris_Luvs2fuck This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Haha be real is all im saying ok lady, so you be real too

# 11  3/28/12 2:21 PM

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kris_Luvs2fuck This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Lol whats up reds_daughter what im saying is true and what bustymalone posted is true as well ,and why you got no photo?? something you hiding,lol i think your the one hitting the brick wall.This site is good except for my bad experience.I'm just sharing with people to let them know to be careful.

# 12  3/28/12 3:29 PM

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DD_67 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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reds_daughter wrote:

kris_Luvs2fuck wrote:

Lol whats up reds_daughter what im saying is true and what bustymalone posted is true as well ,and why you got no photo?? something you hiding,lol i think your the one hitting the brick wall.This site is good except for my bad experience.I'm just sharing with people to let them know to be careful.

I am only here for the forum.  I am not looking to meet so what do I need a photo for?  I think you have made your point.

I think you have BOTH made your points, so please leave it like that or take it off the forum.  Thank you.  DD.

# 13  5/7/12 11:48 AM

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freeandeasy38 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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I agree with others who have posted:

1.  Make sure it is in a public place. Never meet in a secluded or private place until you know the person a **** better
2.  Make sure expectations are set up front about who's paying, it is dutch treat etc.
3.  If you don't click, be polite and move on.
4.  If you do click - HAVE FUN!

# 14  12/29/12 8:24 AM

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zaenia This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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thought it was worthy of a bump

***Can you tell I'm bored witless?? ***

# 15  12/29/12 8:57 AM

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siflo689 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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bored witless here too i could use a bump or two as well

# 16  12/29/12 2:54 PM

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zaenia This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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siflo689 wrote:

bored witless here too i could use a bump or two as well

Shhhhh.....if you we're only a few thousand miles closer I'd take care of ya boredom

# 17  12/30/12 12:58 PM

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N_Owl This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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Additional silly one;

Make sure you get the postcode right, **** is great at finding places but it is crap at correcting a dyslexics ability to get the letters the wrong way round - managed that trick some time ago and ended up a wee tad on the late side because my transposition of the postcode put me at least 1.5 miles away on the other side of a one way system. Ooops!

Owl

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