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"Ask to Verify"

# 1  2/25/14 9:38 AM

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InspectorGadget This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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How can I cancel an "Ask to Verify" request which I sent by accident?

# 2  2/25/14 9:42 AM

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RitchieRich44 This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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I don't think you can. I sent one by accident the other day, and she declined it. Her loss, especially when she asked to chat to me!

# 3  2/25/14 10:11 AM

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Yummy-Mummy This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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do we all have to verify ourselves.. I had problems the other day doing this

# 4  2/25/14 12:41 PM

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InspectorGadget wrote:

How can I cancel an "Ask to Verify" request which I sent by accident?

Hi!
Once you click the 'Ask to verify' you won't be able to communicate with that member.
They have to either accept or decline the notification for verifying their account.

Respectfully,
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# 5  2/25/14 12:44 PM

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Yummy-Mummy wrote:

do we all have to verify ourselves.. I had problems the other day doing this

Hi!
We offer all female customers to verify their profiles to protect our members.
Female can does it either through a payment of a small fee or through confirming their mobile number on the site.
We hope that this new feature will help you to get plenty of communication and more chances to get noticed and have fun on our sites.

Respectfully,
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# 6  2/26/14 12:06 AM

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InspectorGadget This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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If "Ask to Verify" is a new feature intended to help users my view is that it has been poorly implemented from a user interface perspective. It is far too easy to click the "Ask to Verify" link by accident, and there is then no confirmation stage to check that this is really what you wanted to do, and no way of cancelling the request subsequently. Given that one accidental click can then prevent you from ever having any contact with a user ever again, that really is a very poor implementation of this feature.

Although some may say that the user should just accept the Verify request, this is missing the point. New users may not understand the significance of the request, and may easily miss the Request message in among the numerous emails that they receive.

Overall, I am really quite annoyed about this, because I was having a great conversation with a new user when I accidentally clicked the "Ask to Verify" link. Surely there must be some way to fix this so I can get back in contact with this user. Someone must be able to help me. Please.

# 7  2/26/14 1:01 AM

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SwissChris This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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I would wonder why she declined it as, in most cases, they turn out to be somewhere different to where they say, and, if they decline, Admin can block them.

# 8  2/26/14 1:15 AM

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InspectorGadget This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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She hasn't declined it, she just hasn't responded, that's the point, she's a newbie and may not understand the process or may have overlooked the email.
But it's ok, I have spoken to Customer Services and they have fixed it for me, by setting her profile to Trusted.
So, now I can see our previous Chat messages again. I just have to wait for her to be online tomorrow

# 9  2/26/14 1:18 AM

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SwissChris This member uses the Web version of BeNaughty
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That's good of CS. They are sometimes helpfull.

As this problem has been sorted, I am now closing the thread.  moderator

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