I have recenly heard various women express fear or anger of being called **** names like "****" "****" etc. by a partner during ****. I believe it is nothing to be angered about, it may have alot to do with the stage of the relationship or the situation. Women who may be **** or are looking for a future husband may still dream of wedding bells, picket fences, and happily ever after. They are more apt to be more "proper" in the bedroom as opposed to a woman in her 40s who has been married or is married.Once the boredom arrives in a couple's **** life, things that were once "taboo",
inevitably become the norm. Speaking for myself, I find it exciting to step away from "proper" and find whatever means possible to make life exciting again.
The most exciting part is the challenge of submitting and struggling to let go of defenses in which we were always taught to shun. No, we don't have to like it, and no, its not "proper" but..hot damb!!!
its freakin fun!!!!! Just let yourself go or even show him you arent going to just take his abuse. Just remember it still is only Roll Playing....and sometimes I am ready to show him what a "****" I can really be!